Gentleness
can be the solution of every problem. When someone is rude, you should behave
nicely to him. Muhammad (PBUH) set the example of a genuine gentleman. Either
it was regarding family, friends, relatives or his beloved wives. Muslims should
also follow the guidance he has provided us. BE polite with everyone aroundyou. Someone is not having a good day but if you are also harsh with him, may
be you are adding fuel to the fire. So try to make things and situations calm.
Help your elder, make them feel important and also be kind with children and
other creatures of Allah. We live in a society and to maintain its peace this
is the best way even someone is urging you to fight you should remain calm and
advise him to let it go.